being gay - is it a choice?
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hubby ryan and i are gaining a few pounds. what attracted me to ryan then was his skinniness and what attracted him to me was my muscular build. both of that's gone now. haha! we're both growing fat in love! we've been vowing to do some exercise, but haven't gotten around to doing any of that save for walking tyler every now and then. any tips out there?
played host last night to two gay couple friends - let's call them brian and nate. we waited until 12 midnight to greet brian a happy birthday. he said he was treating us out for coffee, but i was just too tired then to go out. will bring it up later when everyone's awake. hubby ryan is all a-snore beside me. i love it that he's building a friendship with my two friends. i'm still a secret to his gay buddies but i've gotten around that snag (will tell more about it later). anyway, time for coffee, kibbles for tyler and a quick walk after. later. good morning!
woke up late to the sound of chickens and lawn mowers and goats and cows - hubby on farmville again! he was slow getting into facebook, swearing by friendster as the best social networking site. but of late, about two weeks ago, his interest in facebook has ramped because of the apps and the video shares. hope it doesn't get messy the way friendster went and will be a decent site for true friendship and casual fun. but that's wishing. anyway... just finished a tuna sandwich and coffee and now making this quick post before i change and walk our beagle tyler. tyler's been bad lately, barking and whining early in the morning for her food and playtime at the balcony. off to greenhills later for ryan to pick up a cheap mobile phone he'll send home to the province to his sister. sweet. maybe sneak in a movie and have our teeth cleaned as well. later.
working to change people's perceptions about gay relationships one friend at a time - mission statement? anyway, i like!
here we go. this one looks easier. i have a blog at tumblr (alen586.tumblr.com) and am able to update it often. with a lot of nonsense. haven't been able to talk or post anything about my life with ryan - my hubby for three years and four months, to date! this is my way of sharing and archiving my life with him, of our lives together. it hasn't been great nor has it been bad - it's life, and i love him to death and i love us. by doing this i am hoping to inspire other same sex relationships out there. or hope to learn as well from others. anyway, here's to a first entry and let's hope i can keep at this. cheers! welcome to our life!
